I just got lucky. Met her via a summer job. She was the best part of that 10 week employment prior to the next semester in the Fall. Memorable. I learned quite a bit about my mind and body. Prior to experiencing her, it was pretty much the typical college/university girls that were wham, bam, shoot a load or two and move on.😇
For me, a considerable part of what you are describing is the full loss of control of how our brain and body react. In our mind, we may not want to lose it, however they take over and determine the ending of the passage.
Yes indeed, very lucky. A young 20 year old with a string sexual desire, and a mature lady that was at least 20 to 25 years older than me (I learned long ago to never ask a lady her age) showing me the ropes (no pun intended). She was extremely well aware of how to treat certain areas of a guys body to bring him a wild and memorable experience.
You are quite right. I can tell you know what you are taking about! I know this extreme pleasure too which is why we love a ruined orgasm! The pleasure comes from the denial during edging followed by the "pain" of the ejaculation over which we have no control; it just happens and there is nothing we can do about it! Fantastic feeling.
For just one example, a brief part of this Comp Video. At 1:08 or so the delay of her in control of as she calls it not cuming out, followed in a few seconds by a powerful blast of cum being released. That release is pure pleasure for him since it was obviously built up to the point of explosion. 😎
Based on personal experience, they are a combination of control and extreme pleasure. Control in the means of delay or denial. And if we are indeed lucky enough, the extreme pleasure of letting lose when taken to the point of no return.
And as many of us are aware, practice makes perfect. For me, I was introduced to it by a mature lady when I was college/university age. Finding a gem like her with that type of experience and practice is not easy. Like finding a diamond in the rough. 😎🤔